Some of you may have read a mini-debate between Asen and I about the feasibility of having MRT in Jakarta by next year.
There's nothing wrong with it, it just so happened we have different
opinions, each taking one side. It's a healthy debate, but if you think
further, what spawn this debate? Why two persons have different
opinions, and look as if one think positively, and the other one seem
to think the other way.
On the surface, it may seem that way, but if we look deeper into each
person's mind, we will find that there's something that underlay these
different thoughts, and that is DOUBT. We all honestly doubt
Indonesia's capability to build such a massive Mass Rapid Transit in
two years, but why different thoughts and opinions? To answer that, we
shall try to answer, what is DOUBT anyway? When reading/thinking
something uncertain, there are two extreme responses of human, one side
is belief, and the other side is unbelief. Doubt, is a state of human
mind that wary in between these two extreme cases. Doubt is normal, and
when in doubt, human tend to gravitate towards one side which he allow
his mind to choose. On a scale from 1 (unbelief) to 10 (belief), Asen,
with his reasoning behind it, put himself, maybe at 2 on the scale
that he truly believes that having MRT in Jakarta in 2007 is simply
impossible. As for myself, with my wishful thinking, maybe put myself
somewhere at 6 on the scale, thus the "debate" that create this
positive/negative thinking phenomenon on that post.
As I think further again, for this case, positive thinking are not any
superior to negative thinking. Positive thinking in a lot of situations
are good and very recommended, but against an impossible news, to some
people, having negative thinking and not having any high hopes could be
better. Everyone entitled to their own opinions, but MUST respect
other's opinions.
I hope I have not lost you until now, and I would like to close this post with what Paul said to the people in Phillipians 4:8: "Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is
right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if
anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things."
For me, when in doubt, instead of concentrating on the impossible side,
I choose to look at what's possible side of the story. I'll usually
gravitate towards rating scale of 10, even though for something that
seems "hopeless", because I believe, miracles do happen, and in fact,
miracles only happen in hopeless situations, or else, it will not be
called miracle, will it?